I saw a bumper sticker today that said, “I only live for today”. After my eye stopped twitching from the nervous tic that developed from the thought of only living for today, I started to think about that concept. I am not sure it is possible to only live for today. We eat, sleep, work,Continue reading “Live for Today”
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Mindfulness
The other day I tripped walking in my yard. I didn’t fall, and I don’t think anyone saw me, but I still felt like a dolt. While ruminating on that adventure, and being thankful I did not fall into a pile of Hercules’ (Graham’s dog) leavings, I thought about balance and how it governs myContinue reading “Mindfulness”
What do I want?
Lately I have been going to yoga. Well, the way I do it “yoga” is charitable, but the instructor is nice and has not asked me to leave yet. After yoga I get a reward of iced coffee and usually rehearse the order, so I don’t sound like a doofus. And I began to thinkContinue reading “What do I want?”
The Climbing Wall
At the YMCA I go to there is a climbing wall. Recently, I was look at the wall and started thinking about how the holds are different colors, shapes and sizes, but the security ropes are mostly the same. I then thought about the wall itself. The “obstacle” if you are a pessimist, or theContinue reading “The Climbing Wall”
Change & Challenge
I’ve been thinking about the words change and challenge. How we say, “I hate change”, and “I love a challenge”. As if they are different words, when I think they both really mean opportunity. My guess is we don’t hate or love either, it’s just that change sounds scary while challenge arouses a need toContinue reading “Change & Challenge”
Boundaries
Earlier this week I wrote an article about boundaries, and true to form I have been re-thinking it most of this week and wondering if I did not consider the other side of the issue. Specifically, could the boundary keep you from being able to solve a problem? The difficult answer is yes. But maybeContinue reading “Boundaries”
Balance
I have been thinking lately about balance. When I was younger, I never really thought about balance. Of course, when you are built like a fire hydrant falling is not something you worry about. But as I get older, I catch myself thinking about falling. Not that I have been falling, but now I thinkContinue reading “Balance”
The Curse of Neutrality
Recently I wrote some articles on my theory of the five tenets, and one of those tenets is being positive. After the article posted a few people contacted me telling me how hard they thought it was to be positive, and perhaps I was not being realistic given the circumstances. My first thought was “Really?Continue reading “The Curse of Neutrality”
If it’s broken, how do we fix it?
Okay, so maybe broken is too strong. But, when a parenting plan is no longer in a child’s best interest, something must be done. When it comes to children, nothing is ever final. Parents change, children change, situations change, and modifications happen. At the same time, children usually do best with stability. But what ifContinue reading “If it’s broken, how do we fix it?”
Alternative to Trial
Most cases do not go to trial. Chances are your case will settle, either through discussions between you and the other party, or more likely your attorneys, or through other formal means. So, let’s assume you do not want to go to trial, and incur the time, expense, and stress a trial will ultimately cost.Continue reading “Alternative to Trial”
